Is Being Fat Fun?

Yes, I just asked that.  Now before you form opinions or plot how to bash me with your rhetoric, please read. This blog is not about being offensive or condescending, it’s about understanding.  Understanding the average life struggles of people who are obese and what they go through in an average day in various social situations.  Here’s the kicker…it’s coming from the viewpoint of someone who has never been obese.

That’s right, I have never been overweight, but one cannot tell me I do not know what it is like to be fat.  I have clients, friends, family who are overweight, and the negative life experiences that they go through, I go through with them.  The hurt of a guy or girl that just wants to be given a chance and date the socially viewed beautiful person, the guy/girl who goes to the club and is ignored while their friends are being suited, and the mother/father that would love to spend a day with their kids but can’t because they physically cannot.  People who are not overweight are affected too; they hurt in some form with you…not everyone can be the girl who tells her friend she looks great in an outfit that resembles a circus clown and revels in it.

 What this comes down to is you.  Are you happy with who you are physically, visually?  If you’re obese and are never affected by anything listed above that’s great!  But, if you are, and you want to change…make sure you do it for you.  Not to get a guy/girl, not to have “game” at a club, do it because it makes YOU feel better.  No matter what, guys and girls will always come and go in your life. Getting a guy/girl will never fill your visualized self void.  Spending an entire fun active day with your guy/girl, your family, your children…will.