Not a relationship goes by that I have not experienced nor witnessed common body image questions that test the significant other on how far they will accept one’s physical appearance change. “Will you still love me if I get fat, you love my beer belly don’t you, you want me skinny like her, or I thought you don’t like muscles?” We’ve all heard these or said them! Stop asking these questions; give your all to the relationship, workout for yourself and for the life of the relationship!!!
Ever heard this verbal threat, “if we break up I’m going to get in the best shape of my life.” When you think about that, you’re not giving them your all now, the next person is worth your best and they’re not? Why be with them??? When you say “I do” to sickness, poor, and health, you’re not saying and to laziness! Ever done something in your life where you knew you could have done better and didn’t feel fulfilled, then did the same task with everything you’ve got and felt immeasurable pride? This is your life, your relationship, your marriage; give it your all, look your best and feel immeasurable pride. Look the best you can for them because you did it for you.
Yes, don’t think of it as doing it for them, do it for your own selfish reasons. That’s your drive! Look the best you can, feel the best you can, I guarantee you won’t regret it when you’re at the beach and your significant other drinks you in more than their ice cold Mojito. That’s your selfishness on all levels! YOU want to look good, YOU want him/her to look at you with desire, YOU love them looking, and they love looking at YOU. That’s what I call selfishly sharing.
Who cares how old you are or how long you’ve been together, stoke that fire, rekindle that flame, or keep it red hot! Old, young, and new, I’ve trained many couples and the love I witness through their flirting and lustful recognition of each other’s progression, I watch it grow because they workout and continue to look their best… that is immeasurable.
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